
Some movies seem to speak directly at a particular audience. There are the obvious chick flicks that women can cry through and men can pretty much get bored at. On the other hand there are dramatic, non-action films that are aimed at men. The most famous being Field of Dreams. I know men who have cried at the end only to have woman say that they don't get it. This is not an insult to either sex. It is simply a statement that we each respond to films that particularly touch us.
Currently at the place I am in my life, I find myself greatly relating to the movie City Slickers. 10 years ago I would have thought it an okay movie and in 10 years from now I may think it dull, but right now it speaks to me on many personal levels.
This movie is about 3 best friends since childhood who are each dealing with problems in their lives. One has problems with the memory of his father, another has problems in his marriage, and another with his job. The three men go off to a cattle rustling 'camp' on vacation and end up having a very therapeutic, emotional reawakening in their lives. It's not actually as heavy as all that, but they do come back changed men.
Being a middle-aged, married, father of 2, I can relate to each of these men on separate levels. However, what makes this movie even more personal for me is the fact of the three friends. They have known each other their entire life. They could spend hours talking baseball. One makes an obscure baseball reference and the other two instantly pick up on it. Being that this website is three movie buff brothers, we do the same, only our point of reference is of course movies. One of us will interrupt a conversation with a movie quote that somehow relates to it and the other two recognize it automatically. I watch this movie and always think of my brothers. Sure, the three of us have full lives away from each other, but, like the friends in this movie, whenever we are together we never lack for conversation.
The wisdom of this movie lies in the hands of a crusty, old cowboy, played perfectly by Jack Palance. He informs the city slickers that they worry about the stupidest things and all they have to do is discover what the one important thing in their life is and once they do that the 'rest ain't shit.'
Billy Crystal, Bruno Kirby and Daniel Stern are all excellent in their middle-aged white male angst. None of them overdo it. You like them without seeing them as wimpy cry babies, and if you do, then apparently this is not your particular type of movie.


















